This post is particularly for me to remind myself not to overact and for those who think they are like me.. I have learnt a very important lesson...And learnt it the hard way.. " Be happy,make others happy but never be sad to make others happy!" May sound a little selfish but that is how it has to be to lead a happy and carefree life... It does not mean that you start ignoring people and being egoistic... It does not mean that you stop caring about others' feelings and start giving yourself extra importance... It just means that you should give a thought to your feelings too while trying to keep everyone happy.... Being kind does not mean that you end up in a state of depression.... Sounds absurd but it is not completely wrong... It happens... If you supress your feelings so that somebody else is happy or so that somebody else is not sad, there will come a time when these unexpressed emotions will turn into bitter ones and unintentionally hurt you and also the people around you...
I sincerely hope that nobody relates to this ever because the results are devastating...:-( :-( :-(
Now that I have found a way to come out of all this, I feel a lot happier and contented than before... With this positive feeling, there is also a feeling of regret because when I came out of this negative state of mind, I realised that I have missed a lot in these years... I have missed so many moments of joy....I can say that I had ruined everything in life with my own hands....Super sad on my part! But as it is said,life goes on,so mine also will...and in a normal way in sha allah..........
One thing that will keep me reminding not to overact is that there is no way in which I can make the whole world happy....Though I have an intention of doing so,it is not possible...So there is no use of building castles in the air....Everybody used to say that I was being imprudent...I know I was but didnt know how to overcome that until recently...And now I realise my stupidity and senselessness...But,better late than never........ So I told myself to stop overacting by trying to be the greatest and start behaving and thinking like a sensible human being....
I have begun to work on this with a hope that this change in me is for the betterment of everyone whom i love and, ofcourse, for me too!
Har kisi ko mukammal jahaan nahi milta,kisiko zameen toh kisiko aasmaan nahi milta!
