DEATH MAKES YOU DIE.....DO NOT DIE BEFORE YOUR DEATH......

Sounds eerie right? I want it to sound like that.. Heard about a death recently and also got to know that the sons of the deceased had told her long back to go away from their home...She did that...I feel terrible while saying this..How can anybody be so selfish and feelingless towards a mother????? Why are people becoming such barbarians while the society is getting civilized day by day???? I feel really sad:-(

I realised something when i thought of the words 'death' and 'cruelty' together... Everyone knows this but still continue to be the same.. It's simple... We know that death is inevitable and after we die it's all over... We become helpless... Have no control over anything... Cannot change the bitter feelings that people have towards us because of our ill behaviour with them during our lifetime... Death finishes it all but the feelings remain... It is completely upto us how people feel for us after our death...It is completely upto us that we do not die before our death... That is we do not die in people's hearts...It is our behaviour that decides everything... When we have to die one day and leave everything behind, then why do we dislike people?
Why do we have a grudge against people?
Why don't we realise that it is the habit and not the people that are bad?
Why do we always look at the negative side of people first and decide for ourself that he/she is bad without even getting to know that person?
Why do we argue and fight with people,be it our loved ones or anybody else,becuse of silly reasons?
Why don't we realise that life is too short to be cruel and selfish?


According to me, life and the people around you will seem good to you if you are good.. Just have a positive attitude towards people and every situation in life.. Love people unconditionally.. Ignore their flaws and appreciate their virtues.. Be good to everyone... Never say 'i hate that person'.. These four words fill life with so much of negativity... How do you hate anybody? That person is also a human being like you.. I believe that however bad a person may be, somewhere in the deepest bottoms of his heart, there is a human... It's just hidden...Find it and then see how beautiful life becomes... Trust me on this.. I have experienced it...


So basically what i am trying to say is that it is the behaviour and attitude towards people that will decide whether you will live in their hearts forever or die before your death..... Read, understand. feel and change....